Wands · Fire
Four of Wandsfor Aquarius · Love and Relationships
"Celebration isn't the question. What you do next is."
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Two figures uplift bouquets; at their side is a bridge over a moat, leading to an old manorial house. Wands represent passion and four represents stability. Together the four of wand represents a celebration, a respite from relentless pursuit of your goals.This card also harkens to marriage and the symbolic celebration of a wedding.
A formal celebration is coming up-- a graduation, a birthday, a holiday, a wedding. Take a pause to give thanks to those that helped get you here and to celebrate all the things you've built and the people you've built it with.
You don't feel that you deserve the celebrations happening around you. You feel insecure and cannot appreciate all the things you have built for yourself or the celebrations feel hollow. Try to let go of the self judgment, don't let it steal your joy.
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Four of Wands for Aquarius in Love and Relationships
The Visionary
Wands are the fire suit, so the Four of Wands sits in Aries. Aries sextiles Aquarius, which is help that has to be taken up rather than help that arrives. What it asks for is this: spend the energy on one thing today. Aquarius is perfectly capable of that, which is exactly why not doing it needs a better excuse. Upright, the structure is holding. Holding is not the same as being right.
When reading about relationships through an Aquarius lens, the Four of Wands says that you feel like partnership is a thought experiment that demands your presence, a daily negotiation of needs (or boredom), and a place where your distance feels safer than your closeness. This has either meant you found someone who loves you from a distance too, or you are alone in a way that feels like a choice. The thing you're not saying out loud is the thing that matters most. The Aquarius blind spot in it is being ordinary, or worse, being needed in a way that pins them down.
In practice that can look like wanting more than you said you did. Whatever form it takes, it has settled into something stable enough to hide in.
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