Wands · Fire
Four of Wandsfor Virgo · Love and Relationships
"Celebration isn't the question. What you do next is."
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Two figures uplift bouquets; at their side is a bridge over a moat, leading to an old manorial house. Wands represent passion and four represents stability. Together the four of wand represents a celebration, a respite from relentless pursuit of your goals.This card also harkens to marriage and the symbolic celebration of a wedding.
A formal celebration is coming up-- a graduation, a birthday, a holiday, a wedding. Take a pause to give thanks to those that helped get you here and to celebrate all the things you've built and the people you've built it with.
You don't feel that you deserve the celebrations happening around you. You feel insecure and cannot appreciate all the things you have built for yourself or the celebrations feel hollow. Try to let go of the self judgment, don't let it steal your joy.
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Four of Wands for Virgo in Love and Relationships
The Analyst
Wands are the fire suit, so the Four of Wands sits in Aries. Aries and Virgo are quincunx, two signs with nothing in common: no shared element, mode, or polarity. This card will not slot neatly into how Virgo already operates. What it wants is this: spend the energy on one thing today. It has to be done deliberately or it will not happen. Upright, the structure is holding. Holding is not the same as being right.
When reading about relationships through a Virgo lens, the Four of Wands says that you feel like your partner is someone whose life you can improve, a problem you can solve (or prevent), and a person you check on more than you check in with. This has either led to a partnership where you catch things before they break, or to your care feeling like an obligation nobody asked for. The thing you're not saying out loud is the thing that matters most. The Virgo blind spot in it is the feeling of being useless, or of having wasted time on something that didn't hold up.
In practice that can look like wanting more than you said you did. Whatever form it takes, it has settled into something stable enough to hide in.
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