
Wands · Fire
Seven of Wandsfor Aquarius · Love and Relationships

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A young man on a craggy eminence brandishing a staff; six other staves are raised towards him from below. Wands represents passion and the seven card represents agency. Together this card represents holding your ground on the subjects you feel passionate about. It's a challenge to your goal and your battle to continue towards that goal.
You are being challenged from an unexpected foe-- perhaps your have realized your pay is not comparable to others in your role, or you need to give feedback to your partner about how they are treating you, or a close friend has told you something in confidence you are struggling to accept. You must face these challenges and handle them with dignity and grace.
You're feeling of indignation and defensiveness is getting the best of you, causing you to lash out and not take the feedback you need to hear. Perhaps someone is challenging something you are very insecure about. Take a step back when you feel anger guiding your words. Try to understand what is at the root of your pain and unpack that topic instead. If you want to maintain the relationship with the challenger, speak to them and figure out a solution.
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Seven of Wands for Aquarius in Love and Relationships
The Visionary
Wands are the fire suit, so the Seven of Wands sits in Aries. Aries sextiles Aquarius, which is help that has to be taken up rather than help that arrives. What it asks for is this: spend the energy on one thing today. Aquarius is perfectly capable of that, which is exactly why not doing it needs a better excuse. Upright, the assessment is being made alone, which is where it is easiest to be wrong.
When reading about relationships through an Aquarius lens, the Seven of Wands says that you feel like partnership is a thought experiment that demands your presence, a daily negotiation of needs (or boredom), and a place where your distance feels safer than your closeness. This has either meant you found someone who loves you from a distance too, or you are alone in a way that feels like a choice. The thing you're not saying out loud is the thing that matters most. The Aquarius blind spot in it is being ordinary, or worse, being needed in a way that pins them down.
In practice that can look like chemistry arriving fast. Whatever form it takes, it is being weighed alone, where it is easiest to lie to yourself.
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