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Cups · Water

Three of Cupsfor Aries · Love and Relationships

Three of Cups tarot card

"Call the friend. Yes, that one."

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On the card

If two is company, three is a party! The card depicts a celebration and friends together cheersing. A card about the group chat that hypes you up! Staying playful as an adult can help you connect with your inner child-- and the three of cups is all about that!

Upright
CelebrationFriendshipCommunityJoy

A fun and lighthearted moment-- an inside joke that makes you laugh or the feeling seeing an old friend. A card about friendship and community more than a romantic connection. Plan a party, or organize an event to play!

Reversed

The social hangover is real-- you are worn out and feeling drained. Things that normal make you feel light are stressing you out-- perhaps a friend and you are growing apart and so your hangs fill up your cup less. Pay attention and be direct with yourself. Set aside quiet time to listen to yourself.

Its place in the deck.

Minor ArcanaNumber card
One of the 56 Minor Arcana. They are about what is happening in ordinary life right now. Each belongs to one of four suits, numbered Ace to Ten, plus four court cards.
SuitCups · Water
Cups are the suit of Water: feeling and attachment. A Cups card is always, underneath, about what you feel and who you are attached to.
NumberThree
The numbers tell a story inside each suit, from a seed at the Ace to the full expression at Ten. Three is first expression outward: it becomes visible to other people and stops being private.

Where it shows up.

In the stars
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WaterElement
Feelings, relationships, and intuition. In tarot: Cups.
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Three of Cups for Aries in Love and Relationships

The Initiator

Cups are the water suit, so the Three of Cups sits in Cancer. Cancer squares Aries, so the card asks for the move Aries is least fluent in: say the feeling to the person it is about. The friction is the content, not an obstacle to it. Upright, it has become visible to other people, which is the part that makes it real.

When reading about relationships through an Aries lens, the Three of Cups says that you feel like your person is the spark that tells you that you are alive, the mirror you look in to check if you are still winning (or losing), and something you can set on fire and rebuild constantly. This has either created a partnership where you both move fast and break things together, or left you chasing the feeling of the first three months with person after person. The thing you're not saying out loud is the thing that matters most. The Aries blind spot in it is the feeling that nothing you do makes any difference, that you are not the center of the story.

In practice that can look like new love, or a conversation that changes the temperature. Whatever form it takes, it is about to become visible to other people.

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