
Wands · Fire
Nine of Wandsfor Aquarius · Love and Relationships

"Tired is not the same as done."
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The figure leans upon his staff and has an expectant look, as if awaiting an enemy. Behind are eight other wands stood up in order. Wands represents passion and nine represents the final stretch. Together this card represents coming near to the end of a long and tough journey, alone and bandaged. The final stretch before finishing-- you have just a single wand to carry you through.
You are being tested, it seems like all your hopes have been dashed-- but you still have the one idea you started with; the core passion to carry you through. Perhaps you were cancelled on for a date you were excited about, or your partner is absent. You're end goal is still in sight. You feel alone now, but you have the ability to get through this and work towards what you want. Keep taking small steps toward your goal (be it a healthy relationship, a marriage, a new job, business success etc).
You are feeling like you want to quit; it's hard to continue on and you are questioning if you can get the things you want. Do not lose hope-- all is not lost. You may feel like the task is impossible, but I believe in you. If someone else is blocking you, try to set boundaries and find ways to move towards your goal despite them.
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Nine of Wands for Aquarius in Love and Relationships
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Wands are the fire suit, so the Nine of Wands sits in Aries. Aries sextiles Aquarius, which is help that has to be taken up rather than help that arrives. What it asks for is this: spend the energy on one thing today. Aquarius is perfectly capable of that, which is exactly why not doing it needs a better excuse. Upright, it is nearly finished, and the last stretch of it is mostly solitary.
When reading about relationships through an Aquarius lens, the Nine of Wands says that you feel like partnership is a thought experiment that demands your presence, a daily negotiation of needs (or boredom), and a place where your distance feels safer than your closeness. This has either meant you found someone who loves you from a distance too, or you are alone in a way that feels like a choice. The thing you're not saying out loud is the thing that matters most. The Aquarius blind spot in it is being ordinary, or worse, being needed in a way that pins them down.
In practice that can look like a fight with heat in it. Whatever form it takes, it is close to done and mostly solitary.
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